The True Meaning of Life Lies In Releasing the False Self

The Search for Purpose

You’ve been taught that the search for purpose is a noble one, that for each of us there is something we’re here to ultimately achieve.

And so the search for the purpose begins…
A title. A career. A number in the bank.
Some milestone that finally tells us: you’ve made it.

But what if none of those things truly held any meaning at all?

What if your income, your job, your relationship status, your success, were all meaningless?

Stay with me here, I know it's a confronting thought at first. But I promise it’s also where true liberation begins.

The truth is, all things are inherently neutral, they have no built-in meaning. It’s simply the mind that assigns meaning to everything.

The False Self Assigns Meaning

Your personal self, or ego, the conditioned mind, labels everything…

“This is good.”
“That’s bad.”
“This means I’m winning.”
“That means I’ve failed.”

But none of that is inherently true.

These are all false concepts conditioned by society, the past, the false self. The meaning isn’t in the thing. It’s in the story you’re telling yourself about it.

You see, the mind is always searching for validation. It wants to know it’s doing the “right” thing, making progress, being good enough. And so it attaches meaning to the numbers, the outcomes, the roles. It's always judging.

It’s what keeps so many high-achieving women stuck in the loop of striving.

Because as soon as you hit that 10K month, the mind says, “Now let’s aim for 20K.”
When you build the dream business, it asks, “What’s next?”
And when things fall apart, it panics – “This must mean I’m not aligned.”

But none of that is truth. It’s just noise.

The Deeper Truth

The deeper truth is this…
You are not your thoughts. You are not your beliefs.
You are not your income, your title, your gender, your achievements.
You are not what the world told you to become.

You are consciousness itself. You are Source.

And the purpose of life isn’t to prove your worth through achievement.
It’s to remember who you truly are.

To grow.
To expand.
To fully experience the richness of life… all of it, from presence.

The Return to Neutrality

When you start to release the meanings you’ve attached to everything…
When you start to dissolve the judgments and expectations your mind has been gripping onto…
You return to something far more powerful: neutrality.

And in that neutrality, you find peace.

You start to see the beauty in this moment, without needing it to be different.
You start to follow the flow of life, rather than fight it.
You realize there’s no race to run, no title to chase, no version of yourself to become.
You realize you’re already whole.

The Meaning of Life Is Presence

So if you’ve been caught in the loop of striving, achieving, and still feeling unfulfilled, come back to this…

The meaning of life isn’t something you’ll find “out there.”
It’s in your ability to be deeply present right here.

This is the work I’ve been doing for years, letting go of the false self, softening the grip of the mind, and surrendering to the divine intelligence already moving through me.

And this is the invitation I extend to you now:

Let go.
Be here.
Remember.

You’re not here to do more.
You’re here to be more.
To be more present. More conscious. More connected to the divine truth of who you are.

And from that place, everything changes.

If this message resonated, I go deeper into this topic, including real-life examples and the energetic shift that changed everything in this week’s episode of The Miracle Frequency podcast.
🎧 Tune into Episode 5: The Illusion of Meaning, and the Freedom Beyond It.